New cat - need tips

SkuLL

Chad McRealman
Orderite
Today, a lady brought a kitten into our house. It's a 6 weeks old female cat and it looks like we're keeping it 8-)

So far it's very quiet and sort of sits in a box that we made for it and placed in the corner. It's not exactly frightened - it lets you grab it, but eventually always hides in the nearest corner.

Does anyone have cats and/or knows what to do with a kitten? We got a box for it to sleep in (with some cloth inside), a bowl of water and gonna get a litter-box today. I don't wanna freak the cat out, but don't want to ignore it either...

Got any tips/tricks for making a cat feel at home and for making sure it develops properly? I don't even know how often to feed it :shrug:
 
First of all, remain calm with the kitten, don't reach out immediately for it but try to get it to come to you instead.
Try luring it with a string or another toy cats love.

In the beginning the kitten will simply be scared, he/she has been removed from its familiar environment and its brother and sisters and mom.

In time it will calm down and try to approach you.
Once he or she does, try to stroke it as often as possible, of course not forceful and pick it up once in a while to make clear to him or her that humans are great to hang out with, but of course let him or her go when the kitten is tired of it.

You should at least feed him two times a day but of course you can feed him three times, at the morning, the start of the afternoon, and of course the evening. (but not a full bowl, cats can quickly become overweight, especially when they do not come outside)

Some advice, despite if being told that the mom cat had no worms or fleas, kittens almost always have them, so try to get some de wormer medicine and anti flea that is suitable for young cats.
The stuff for adult cats is often to potent for kittens.

In case the kitten doesn't immediately use the litter box, but instead chooses some corner, put the littler box there first so that he/she gets familiar with it, and then slowly move it every day to the place where you want him or her to do that biological function.


In general be as calm around the kitten as possible and speak to it in a gentle tone, and try to give it as much attention as possible.
Try to touch his or her mouth and paws as much as possible, that will make it easier for when you later have to give him/her medicine or clip their nails.

When playing with them its best to use a toy, it can become a problem if they start to associate hands and fingers as toys, surprising you when they bite you during a playful mood.


PS. post some photos please.
 
Hehe, thank you for the tips!

I figure I'll just leave it in its box in the corner for as long as it wants to be there. Gave it some kitten food and a bowl of water... Right now it goes between sleeping and giving us wide-eyed looks from the safety of its box.

Will post some pics later. I never was a cat person, but this one's quite cute. I feel a bit sorry for it at the moment, but I guess it will become very lively in the next few days/weeks.
 
Don't let it run away, cats are quick little furry devils and hard to get back especially if they don't go out much and are shy of people. We had two cats several years ago. Also remember to give them attention :)
 
It depense were and how do you live if they feel fine they allways come back.
Cat´s likes to go out hunting that´s there behavior ..
I have a little cat door so it can go out whenever it want´s to have a bit fun outside and in most cases you don´t even need that dammned cat box... :lol:
 
I've had several cats, and currently have two females - a Manx and a grey/brown tortoiseshell shorthair.

Like Dutchie said, contact is key, especially at this stage. The more socializing the cat gets now, the more friendly and easy to own it will be later on. Many people think that cats are a "feed it and ignore it" kind of pet, but this is completely untrue. Cats need attention, and the more they get (as long as they want it) the better. Also, choose a name with an strong "E" sound in it, as those are the kind that cats seem to most quickly associate with "Hey that's me!" or at least "Hey that means good stuff!"

When it comes to punishment, the best way to get across that they've done something bad is to make an angry face and to talk to them in an low, growling voice. You can hold them if you like, to make sure they get the point. Don't be rough, and try to never strike the cat, although a tap (and I literally mean a tap) on the top of the head is not uncalled for in serious cases. Even more importantly, DO NOT chase the cat, and DO NOT call their name if you chase them. If you chase them after punishment and then pet them, they become confused, and calling their name immediately after punishment will cause the "Name = good stuff" association to become "Name = RUNRUNRUN." And it's all about association, which cats are very quick to do.

Another reason for this is that after a cat is comfortable with you, they'll usually soon come back after running off, to see if you're still angry. If they approach you after being punished, treat them like they're a good cat again. It helps with associating a certain act with the punishment and will prevent them from becoming alienated or afraid of you.

If you want to be sneaky about it, have a spray bottle handy and give them a quick squirt when they're doing something bad (like being up on the counter). Don't laugh, don't even look at them after, and they may associate being wherever or doing whatever with getting wet. This method is tricky, however - my cats began to associate the sound of the spray bottle with "Oh damn, RUN" so I gave up on it.

When it comes to touching, many cats like to be smacked on their lower back, like spanking. I'm serious.
[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1SF7G9UjVi0[/youtube]For a cat, it's like the most awesome massage ever.

Talk to your cat, treat it gently, play with it often, and be very careful in how you discipline it, and you'll have a loving little furball on your hands. My cats usually cannot stand to be in a different room than me, will wait at the bathroom door while I'm in the shower, almost always sleep next to me, often come to me when I call, and apparently my Manx will often yowl and sleep by the front door after I leave the house. So, maybe I take it a little too far and have made them dependent on me, but it's nice to be loved.
 
Get good kitty litter. Seriously. Some of that sand they sell cheap doesn't do shit. You might as well put an open bottle of ammonia in your house instead of a cat.
 
Absolutely make sure that you take it to a vet. It needs its shots and deworming. Make sure to spay/neuter it as well. You don't want a cat that suffers or dies from preventables diseases and illnesses and you most definitely do not want a cat that has kittens. Also, cats tend to be more manageable if they aren't horny all the time.
 
Thanks for all the tips, guys! I found especially Leon's info on cat discipline pretty useful (maybe not the mildly disturbing cat fetish video, but it was funny).

I find it hard to give the cat a name. I think it's just gonna be called 'the cat', I don't think it gives a shit :)

It doesn't particularly love physical contact, but it no longer sprints away when people get near. It's also beginning to show that hunter-like interest in all moving objects.

Anyway, it has tried to explore the house a few times already, so here are pictures - it really seems to like the area behind the TV, where all the cables go:

cat2.jpg


I hope it won't chew them and get electrocuted... :shrug:

cat1.jpg
 
aww so cute!

a little advice and im not sure if it is actually a good thing

Approach kittens/puppies on hands and knees to pet/pick them up. My 6'2" frame scares kitties when i stand over them.
 
Yeah, I learned that pretty early on :)

Any way to get them to stop ripping up nice things? So far it's very docile, but I expect it to start swinging on the curtains any day now...
 
Not sure about the ripping and scratching but my friend who has at least three cats I think has something like this.

It gives them a place to climb up to and observe from and laze about and pounce on unsuspecting victims and rip up their...well maybe not quite but they like it. And like Leon said, you might think about using a water sprayer bottle to teach him/her when he/she does something bad, just a little spray should do the trick.
 
Aww, so cute. :D Call her Lil' Deathclaw... or Stringbean.

Take the cat to the vet, if you haven't already. Get a full check up and get the cat spayed.

You should "kitten proof" the house, or area that it is being kept (I assume it has full range of the house). Much like baby proofing, get down to the kitten's perspective. Hanging wires and the like may look tempting to a playful kitten, thus they may bat at, chew up dangerous stuff like that. Which could result in a lamp being pulled down off wherever, and may injure the cat (or just be broken, and who wants to deal with that).

Make sure that all harmful chemicals or cleaners are securely put away. Some hazardous household items have a sweet taste that animals may want to eat or drink (I know dogs like the sweet taste of antifreeze). Better safe than sorry.

And here's an important tidbit about making sure your cat doesn't wreak havoc on furniture. Cat's are solitary creatures, while they do like the companionship of humans and other cats or animals, they need their own space. I mean, I'm sure everyone would go crazy if they had to be around their friends and family all the time. It's best to designate a quiet area of the house for the cat's alone time, it could be a room that isn't used or just a corner of the house. This would be the place to put a cat tree (like what MutantScalper posted), one that is also a scratching post. Also keep the cat's toys there and things the cat likes, and of course the cat's bed. Encourage the cat to scratch only the scratching post; praise it every time the cat scratches the scratching post ("good girl," with a treat reward. Eventually you will ween the cat off always getting a sort of food reward when being praised, and she will understand that the verbal praise means that she is doing a good thing).

As with what other posters have said, socialization is key at this stage. Once the cat becomes more comfortable, expose the cat to new situations and new people. If something scares the cat, like the crash of a pan or a thunderstorm, ignore it. Don't feel bad, don't coddle the cat. The cat will work it out on her own, and see that no one else is making a big deal about what just happened, so it must be safe. (Although cats a usually fine with noise phobias, but other things, if she gets scared, just act normal.)

I personally wouldn't let the cat roam freely outside. Not only does letting the cat roam unattended outside put it in danger of injury by car, other animals, et cetra; puts the cat at risk of getting diseases and parasites, your ferocious little warrior also puts wildlife in danger. The Stephens Island Wren had been hunted to extinction because of one cat (allegedly). I'm not saying your cat is the next feline Genghis Khan hell bent on conquering all small critters that stand in her path, I'm just saying that it's best to be a responsible pet owner and supervise your cat's outdoor romps. It will keep your cat safe from physical harm, from diseases and parasites, which all may equal death, and it will keep your birdwatching neighbors from giving you the evil eye every time you go get your mail (not to mention that cats may dig up neighbors' gardens for litter use). If you start early enough, you can train your cat to walk on a leash. Some cats are easier to leash train than others, and some may just flat out refuse to get used to it, but you could try.

Good luck!



Disclaimer: Much to my dismay, I haven't had the good fortune to own a cat or kitten. :( I have read a lot of cat care books, watched a lot of television programs on cats, cat behavior and care. I'm what one would call "book smarts" on the subject. I suggest you listen to the actual cat owners, and if my suggestions are absolutely wrong then someone please correct them, and I will quietly wander off in shame. I also suggest getting some books on kitten/cat care and training, and ask as many questions as you can think of, no matter how stupid they may seem, when you take your kitten to the vet.

(Edited because of some grammatical error.)
 
Whoa, thanks for the info, voof! It all seems like really good advice.

I think we'll give the cat a corner in the living room, so it can socialise (watch us cook, eat and watch movies), but also have that cat tree with a scratching post so it can entertain itself. And a bed with a roof so it can hide if it wants to.

I guess that if it has its own space and entertainment, it is less likely to climb up the curtains and eat the couch...

verevoof said:
Disclaimer: Much to my dismay, I haven't had the good fortune to own a cat or kitten. :(
What? That's... unbelievable. You're like... a cat person, no?

I always imagined you as an owner of two-or-more cats - a young cat woman slowly turning into an old cat lady, surrounded by fluffy love and sounds of purring...
 
much like i am an armchair general, i believe veervoof is an armchair crazy cat lover.
 
SkuLL said:
What? That's... unbelievable. You're like... a cat person, no?

I always imagined you as an owner of two-or-more cats - a young cat woman slowly turning into an old cat lady, surrounded by fluffy love and sounds of purring...
I know, I know! I'm a disgrace! The moment I settle down in a place of my own and have the means to care for another, I'll be well on my way to crazy cat womanhood! :)
 
I bet verevoof just never got a cat, because he is a cat. You know, one of these genetical engineered ones who can write stuff in the internet.
 
Kittens/Cats are easy to take care of. You don't need to do all kinds of crazy shit like "kitten proofing" your house (who the fuck came up with that idea?) or making/buying "cat furniture".

-Give it Food/Water.
-Clean the litter box.
-Don't let it go outside.
-Take it to the Vet once a year for shots/etc.


That's all you need to know about having a kitten.
 
SkuLL said:
I always imagined you as an owner of two-or-more cats - a young cat woman slowly turning into an old cat lady, surrounded by fluffy love and sounds of purring...

This is how I imagine Miss Voof...the only thing missing is the laptop.

simpsons_CrazyCatLady.gif
 
SkuLL said:
Today, a lady brought a kitten into our house. It's a 6 weeks old female cat and it looks like we're keeping it 8-)

So far it's very quiet and sort of sits in a box that we made for it and placed in the corner. It's not exactly frightened - it lets you grab it, but eventually always hides in the nearest corner.

Does anyone have cats and/or knows what to do with a kitten? We got a box for it to sleep in (with some cloth inside), a bowl of water and gonna get a litter-box today. I don't wanna freak the cat out, but don't want to ignore it either...

Got any tips/tricks for making a cat feel at home and for making sure it develops properly? I don't even know how often to feed it :shrug:
lol i have same situation here. I got cat since 26 october and he also hides in corner
 
Back
Top