Just... Go away.

Jebus

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Too often and too regularly have I seen the same dreadful mindset in discussions lately - a mindset I prefer to call the 'Just... Go away' one. I find this mindset to be particularly well illustrated in this post in this particular thread on the Elder Scrolls forums:

Thunderslf said:
wolfer said:
I agree completely. And what I can't understand, is WHY. Why go out of your way just to insult those that like this game. I've acctually been flamed a couple of times just for liking this game. Those who do that are just plain idiots, wasting time in flaming me while they could be doing more productive work, like.... say... Curing cancer, or developing teleportation technology just to have the earth overrun by ali... No wait, that may be going too far...
This also annoys me, the game came out about a year ago, and people who got it the first day STILL complain about it! If you don't like the game play something else and stop bothering the people who like the game. Which is the majority by the way.

The fact that majority disagrees does not mean you do not have the right to dissent. I realise that in some mindsets, especially the prevailing American one, the Majority is Always Right. But to me that is, frankly, bullshit. The very damn bottom line of western thinking is that *every* opinion is important, and that in democratic mindsets *every* opinion matters. Or, as Voltaire said, "I might disapprove of what you say, but I will defend to the death your right to say it."

First of all, in these particular spheres majorities are practically impossible to define. If you, in this instance, define your view of majority to be the posters on the Elder Scrolls Forums, you are missing the obvious point that people who didn't like, didn't want, and/ or didn't buy the game would obviously not take the time or effort to register themselves to the forum dedicated to it. That leaves a potentially overwhelming silent majority that's simply never taken into account.

Secondly, everybody has the bloody right to complain. And ESPECIALLY the people who actually bought the game, and ended up disliking it. I'm pretty sure the majority of people pretty much liked asbestos, but if nobody would've bothered to complain about the fact that it might, y'know, cause cancer the world would be a heck of a lot worse off now. If you buy something and dislike it, it's not only your right but your bloody DUTY to say why.

Being able to think things through and offer an opinion different from the herd is, basically, what separates humans from cows. So if some people want to be bloody cows that's their problem - just don't try to force other people to be cows too.

I decided to write this on these boards because, especially with the latest influx of noobs, a kind of 'This is OUR territory, and WE are the majority of the Fallout fanbase' mentality has started to develop on these boards also, which basically quenches a lot of potentially interesting and enriching discussions. People are too easily branded and treated as trolls just because they (sometimes aggressively) offer and opinion that radically differs from the majority of people on these boards. That does not, however, automatically mean that they are pariahs in the Fallout fandom in general, and even if they were they would still have the right to say what they do.

So please, new people - attack, ridicule or humiliate antagonists arguments all you want - just never, ever deny them the right to say it. This has been an NMA policy for all the years that I have been here - and while it might sometimes be hard to discern this, it's a policy that the moderator crew will - hopefully - always continue to live by.

Also, note that I have not written any of this on the Elder Scrolls forums because it would be like throwing pearls to the swines.


*edit* Crap, wrong forum :look:
 
Spellblade of ESForums said:
Your character is in a jail cell for some ludacrid crime which you never saw, and you have to play this character in the land of Cyrodiil. And ultimately, you save Tamriel. HOW IS THAT NOT ROLEPLAY!?!

Excellent.
 
The Order's Pet Parrot said:
(...) the Majority is Always Right.
Lol, that issue is studied and developed in some fictions I know, among which are, for instance, Tolkien's Lord of the Rings, or Silmarilion, or even the Rurouni Kenshin's animé. :P And I believe, like you, that thought is very present in the average American citizen... Here in Portugal it's not that present, but there's also that idea, in some people from all social levels.
 
This isn't exactly the right part of the forum, Jebus.

Also, cross-site trolling is frowned upon, although I'll let this slide for now, unless this devolves into bickering and/or said cross-site trolling.
 
Jeebs said:
People are too easily branded and treated as trolls just because they (sometimes aggressively) offer and opinion that radically differs from the majority of people on these boards.

Too easily?

If anyone wants to discuss Fallout or Fallout canon, they should educate themselves about the subject before blarting, a six hundredth time in a row "Give F3 a chance" or "Bethesda is teh suck lawl", without giving any justification to their arguments whatsoever.
 
VirtualAlex said:
Well articulated post. But it would have been better without the American bashing.

I also agree with the first post from Jebus and it's good to see another Belgian on the boards.
But as to your comment about 'American bashing'. Well, i've seen comments like 'love it or leave it' or 'what do you know. Your not a US citizen' in discussion on forums more and more over the last five years or so. Granted, most of the time, other Americans come in and correct the fool who posted it. But as i said, it happens more and more. Let me also be clear that this is not an attack on you but it might explain why Jebus said what he said.
 
JR Jansen said:
But as to your comment about 'American bashing'. Well, i've seen comments like 'love it or leave it' or 'what do you know. Your not a US citizen' in discussion on forums more and more over the last five years or so. Granted, most of the time, other Americans come in and correct the fool who posted it. But as i said, it happens more and more. Let me also be clear that this is not an attack on you but it might explain why The Order's Pet Parrot said what he said.
Besides, he (and I, in my post) didn't classified ALL American citizens... :roll: It's a prejudice, even if founded, but only those to which it is fit should be bothered by it... :roll: At least I think that way, when people come bashing Portugal, most of the times, I'm one of the first agreeing with it X3
 
SuAside said:
JR Jansen said:
it's good to see another Belgian on the boards.
there are plenty of us, i assure you.
I think the Belgians even outnumber us Dutchies now.

Anyway, Jebus, NMA has never been a 'say whatever you want' haven. Everything is allowed, more or less, so long as you do some research and come up with actual arguments.
The people that get branded as trolls are people who come in, throw in an off-handed remark that is sure to piss people off, without any argumentation whatsoever.
 
Sander said:
Anyway, The Order's Pet Parrot, NMA has never been a 'say whatever you want' haven. Everything is allowed, more or less, so long as you do some research and come up with actual arguments.

That is, if I'm not mistaken, more or less my point.
I never claimed people have the right to come in here for no other reason to troll - I said that people here have a right to express differing opinions and not be attacked for the base fact that the expressed them. If they don't back their claims up, they're certain to get burned, though - which is a healthy approach to things.

Also, a plague on the house of the one who wordfiltered 'Jebus'.

Alsotwo, Belgians for teh win.
 
It's a shame. After the wordfilter made it impossible to discuss the ancient Babylonian city of Ur, it is now also made impossible to quote Homer Simpson.

Is this a conspiracy of Orwellian proportions? Is the NMA administration attempting to hide some heinous plot? Discover tomorrow, in a new episode of 'Internet dramah'!
 
The Order's Pet Parrot said:
Is this a conspiracy of Orwellian proportions? Is the NMA administration attempting to hide some heinous plot?

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Your thread actually convinced me of registering on these forums. Though I really enjoy NMA, I do have opinions that differ from the majority of users (or so I think), and I live in the terrible fear of burning in flaming posts.

All right then, I might try to express my views once in a while, and hope to survive :) .
 
well, with a nick like that... your life will be short!

as for having another opinion, you're free to have it as long as you can defend the arguments behind it (in a civil and logical fashion that is).
 
SuAside said:
as for having another opinion, you're free to have it as long as you can defend the arguments behind it (in a civil and logical fashion that is).
So you're saying that stupid persons that either liberately take distance from or are simply incapable of logic reasoning, are not free to have opinions? It's my estimation is that they make out about 95% of the global population :P
 
The Order's Pet Parrot said:

What's that girl? You want a cracker?

And feel free to disagree here, just don't start calling people names when you disagree.
 
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