Were you teased in school

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I want to start a topic about everyones life in school and if you where teased and bullyed by other students. if you were, what were you called, did you contemplate suicide, an when did the teasing stop.

please share your stories



My Life in school

The first seven years of school were fun I was part of the so called popular kids, life was easy and fun, then came high school. Things really changed lost most of my old friends became an outcast, I would get beaten up nearly everyday teased constanly in fact my nickname was Fag boy. I contemplated suicide many times but I loved my family so much I could not do that to them.

2 years passed and I still was treated like shit, then one day I just snapped, the same guy who teased me in class all the time was at it again, I just got up out of my seat grabbed him by the hair and smashed his head on the table a couple times, he went to sleep for a bit and his friend jumped up and grabed me. We wrestled on the ground for awhile, some how I manged to break his arm in the process. We were shortly broken up and I was expelled for a day. I finally told my parents what was happening over the years at school they walked in and threatened to sue the school for allowing the bullying to go on in class.

So I was sent back to school, I didnt wanna go back but my parents said I can't run away from these things because if I run now I will be running my whole life. I went back after a couple of Day and it was the first day in years no one said a thing to me not one mean thing. they guys I had the fight with didn't say a word, I was man enough to appoligse for what I did and they also apoligised to me for treating me like shit for so long. We are now good friends.

I guess the morel of the story is stand up for yourself don't let it go on for so long because you are better than that. They don't have the right to treat you like shit.
 
Serifan, I think you've finally got yourself a decent post here. Although I'm not sure I belive you about ever being a, "so called popular kid."

Sure, I was teased, but look at me now! Oh wait...
 
Heh, it seems to come down to one moment after being bullied, and then you snap.

Well during years 2-5 I was a lot taller than other kids, but a weedy bastard. They used to make fun me due to that and I thought they were buttfuckers (and I'm sure some are now)but never did anything about it as there was far too many of them. Then one day I just lost it. I beat up this motherfucker that had been bullying me for all those years, and left him in a mess on the playground floor. He deserved it and I never regretted it, as he had bashed me a few years prior to this incident.

After that this guy steered clear of me :D

I guess in high school, I was just one of those guys that everyone knows, but they don't really know me. "Mr. Blend In" if you will... A pretty boring high school era, possibly as I went to a private school, but thats it.

And yes I am no longer that weedy fucker I once was, so when I see those guys now stoned off their faces at 10am, I sit and laugh.
 
I used to tease people.

I stopped doing that when I turned fourteen or sth, though. Changed my priorities to chasing girls then.
 
i doubt this interests anyone, but here it goes:

when i was a baby, my parents moved to France for my dad's work. so my first years of school were there. as far as i can remember, i was never picked on back then. they often called me 'le belge' (the main reason for that, was that my name starts with a G, which is hard to pronounce for the frogs) and often told belgian jokes, but it was all in good fun.

my best friends at the time, was a black guy (second generation french though) & a kid from originallly from marseille (hihi wacky accent). we hung out a lot & had loads of fun. the black guy however, got bullied a lot by some 9-10 years old FN fucktard. my friend usually simply tried to ignore it. it seemed to bother me more than it did him, so eventually i snapped (i was 7, i think). after school, the bully was at it again, i walked up to the dude, and hit em in the jaw. he crumbled moaning, so i went home with my friend & didn't think about it much. next day, i was called to the principles office. i had broken his jaw & it had to be wired shut for a while. i explained the situations & i wasn't expelled, luckily. anyway, he never bullied my friend again afaik.

half a year later, my parents moved back to Belgium (job related again. i do believe my father had seen this coming & had used it to convince the principle to keep me, for just a short while extra. i never asked him if he did, or didnt, though.). i then went to a small local school in the village (classes there til 14yo). the first day was quite funny. i came from France, barely spoke any dutch (what little i could say was with a heavy french accent) and had just come back from extended holidays (= i had quite a tan, since i've always been the 'southern european'-type). so i entered school, first thing a girl says to me after i walk up & ask where my class is "zeide gij nen turk?" or "are you a turk?" (in bad flemish). cracked me up. the poor girl is still ashamed of what she said back then (we became friends later).

anyhow, for some time after that i was teased a little. being foreign (well, i wasn't actually, but that didn't matter to them) and slightly chubby back then. the teasing stopped at around 12yo, for no appearant reason (acceptence? i dont know).

at 14yo i transfered to another school, in the city. i received the occasional remark there, but nothing i would call bullying. we had the habbit of just taking shots at eachother for fun back then. i insulted them as much as they insulted me, so everything was cool. (we never hit where it really hurt. you don't laugh at people on stage with stagefright for instance.)

when i hit 16yo (as i left the "chubby"-phase), i was faced with the most annoying guy i've ever met. he was a moron, an attentionwhore and thought he was the smartest guy in the room (which obviously wasn't true). anyhow, in the end, after trying to ignore him, trying to bully him into becoming acceptable, he just wouldn't change and i beat em up for it (once). nothing really bad, just three hits on the torso. well, two guttshots actually, since one hit was to the lunchbox he had stashed in the chestpocket of his K-way at the time (i broke the box :s ). he tried to hit back once, but i dodged it & he just crumbled like a sack of potatoes against the wall after the 2 guttshots. got called to the 'overseer' for that (not even the principle). talked my way out of it solo this time. didn't even get detention. not to proud of this, but really, if you knew the guy, you'd have been cheering me on because he just always found a way to get on your nerves. (even the most respected & toughest teacher cracked once, he threw the dudes backpack out the window, for a nice 3 story drop) ;)

i haven't been bullied or haven't bullied anyone since then. while i hear a lot of stories about college stuff from the US, i've yet to see any real bullying here at uni. those are also the only 2 times i had to fight at school (or school-related at least). had to fight once more, but that was when i was 'steward' at a big student party (nacht van de scholier, d'monde). i'm really not a violent guy.


as for suicide, i've thought about it a lot over the years, but that's totally unrelated to bullying or any type of depression. more curiousity & philosophy. i never actually tried though.
also, my nick has nothing to do with it actually, as it came from something else.
 
There has been a few occasions in my life where I have been "trialed" by people. Today most of those guys are some of my closest friends. I guess people tend to learn the advantages of friends.

Suicide. I guess everyone has had the thought somewhere along the line. Suicide thoughts are pretty common though there is a line between those who think and those who act. I kept myself amongs the ones who thought (thinked??). It's pretty fun to come up with ways so that it would make the suicide look like a murder or kidnapping etc but I hope I never get to that point irl.
 
Yeah, I wasn't teased when I entered high-school.
Maybe it's because I tell people I'd fuck 6 year olds...
 
It is interesting to see what other people have to say about this because I can relate to your stories so well. I have been there and felt what you guys have felt.

Roshambo and Suffer please post your stories and anyone else here who is being teased or had been teased.
 
Hm...

In elementary and junior high I would be teased annoyingly for random reasons, but none severe or very often. In high school this almost completely stopped and I've experienced none from then on. Perhaps I was lucky to be just a little taller and broader shouldered than most males.

Sincerely,
The Vault Dweller
 
Jebus said:
I used to tease people.

I stopped doing that when I turned fourteen or sth, though. Changed my priorities to chasing girls then.
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Same. I was never teased, not even when I was still a long-haired stupid metalhead kid. Afterwards I did the teasing as I got adjusted. Afterwards the whole thing struck me as banal and I let it be.

PS: I still tease, but only in bed! Ba-da-bum*pssssh*
 
Well most people who are bullies,or pick on people to an extreme,usually have emotional or self esteem issues.

So Serifan may i suggest instead of resorting to violence,and adding to their problems.The next time something like this happens you just go up to them and give them a big hug and tell them you understand their pain.
 
lol

It was not like I was trying to piss all you guys off. just took me sometime to understand how everything works around here.

Kinda like prison rules here. an at the moment im still a prison bitch.
 
Holy God Damn. Teasing started really bad when I was in 3rd grade. To 3rd Graders coming from hardy stock didn't mean a lick of difference from being fat. Took that pretty awful. Then we moved to Oklahoma when I started Middle School and had no friends. I made a few, but then lost them when I figured out they really didn't care about me. Teasing was still kinda bad, but it got better as I adjusted my personality for it.

By High School I still had no friends save a couple of dudes I'd hang out with at lunch, and acted the loner. I was intelligent enough to ask questions during class and insightful enough to provide input or make smart ass remarks. Apparently, I find out a few years later, people thought I was a "cool dude" because of it.

It all practically stopped when I started taking classes in a local vocational school during the 10th Grade. I made some real friends, then, and it was pretty uneventful.

Even in College, though, I still hadn't quite escaped teasing. There was this yuppie douchebag who would keep asking me stupid questions like I was retarded. I played along enough to imply that he was a dumbass, and made sure that he understood there was plenty of animosity between us.

Things came to a head, oddly enough, in the student lobby when I was hanging out with my friend Mike. He was pulling his usual fake smarmy yuppie bullshit, and as an intentionally lame comeback I said "Your Mom has cancer." Dude took it to heart. "MY MOTHER DIED OF CANCER!" He got up and puffed out like a silverback, so I didn't take him seriously. My remarks fueld his white trash rage up to the point where Mike threatened to throw down with him in the lobby. Everybody around us was doing their hardest not to burst out laughing because this guy took some retarded comeback so personally.

Come to find out later that his mom really did die from cancer. He stopped giving me shit after that. I never apologized. What a dick.
 
I was definately a fat kid in elementary school but i had a lot of friends so i didn't get much teasing but there were definately some occurances. It sucks being teased for being fat becuase your tormenters are right. If you call someone a fag you don't really know if they are but if you call a fat kid 'lard ass' everyone knows its true. luckily for me I was always a good athlete and when oranized sports came into play it was smoothe sailing from then on.
 
Suffer said:
Same. I was never teased, not even when I was still a long-haired stupid metalhead kid. Afterwards I did the teasing as I got adjusted. Afterwards the whole thing struck me as banal and I let it be.

PS: I still tease, but only in bed! Ba-da-bum*pssssh*
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what happened to Suffer's third person monologues?
 
SuAside said:
What happened to Suffer's third person monologues?
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Didn't know that thou like them so, I got to make more, need to make more, did make more. So says the I. :twisted:

Well, I never got teased in school, cause I lived in an area that no one know me, and I know with parties to stay away, I made friends of a few like-minded, and lived happily ever afte... until I finally found out that they were all in on it, just to break my spirit, mind and body. Now I call then enemies, and I have lots of them, thought they are too stupid to know who they are.
 
My father told me to stand up to bullies early. I got a good ass whiping from a few but I was able to take a couple of them out enough to be left alone (bullies go for easy prey).
 
SuAside said:
what happened to Suffer's third person monologues?
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Suffer only uses monologue-form randomnly whenever the situation calls for it. Monologue-skits get tiring both to type and to read, so constant usage of it is just a pain in the butt.
 
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